NewmanRoots.com – Early Virginia Marriage Age Study

Vauter’s Episcopal Church in Essex County, Virginia
We want to establish a better age calculation standard. Approximating age at the time of marriage is crucial in establishing relationship links and determining if a woman was of childbearing age when children attributed to her were born. Because there is so little data to work with we have to make many assumptions in this process. Few colonial records have survived, and most of those that have do not specify ages, although you might be able to infer some age ranges from some records. We want to discover, what was normal in Virginia 1650-1799? We couldn’t find a Colonial Virginia marriage study, so we decide to do our own. At the end of our study, we will use the data to create a better method for estimating ages.
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Our sources for this study and chart below are the Virginia Encyclopedia and Family Bibles shared online. They are sorted by the marriage year. This page will continue to be updated, until we have found 100 couples in Virginia that meet the study’s criteria. At the end of our age study, we will share our conclusions here with new standard age estimates, for when ages are not given on records.
The criteria for this study:
- The marriage occurred in Virginia
- This is a first marriage for both the bride and groom
- The birth month and year are known for both the bride and groom
- The marriage date month and year are known
- The marriage occurred before 1800
Groom’s Name | Groom’s Birth Date | Groom’s Age | Marriage Date | Bride’s age | Bride’s Birth Date | Bride’s Name | County in Virginia associated with this family |
Samuel Godwin | 20 May 1687/8 | 24 | 19 Jun 1711 | 15 | 1 Feb 1696 | Mary Jossey | Nansemond |
John Norfleet | 21 Jul 1699 | 27 | 28 May 1727 | 17 | 5 Apr 1710 | Elizabeth Riddick | Nansemond |
Richens Brame | 2 Dec 1722 | 20 | 14 Feb 1743 | 18 | 13 Jun 1724 | Susannah Chiles | Mecklenburg |
John Estes | 27 Dec 1725 | 20 | 11 Sep 1746 | 20 | 30 Mar 1726 | Mary Marshall | Caroline |
Fielding Lewis | 7 Jul 1725 | 21 | 18 Oct 1746 | 22 | 11 Feb 1724 | Catherine Washington | Spotsylvania |
Charles Talbot | 6 Feb 1723 | 24 | 3 Aug 1747 | 14 | 26 Dec 1732 | Drusilla Gwin | Bedford |
John Carlyle | 6 Feb 1720 | 27 | 31 Dec 1747 | 16 | 31 Dec 1730 | Sarah Fairfax | Alexandria |
James Madison Sr | 27 Mar 1723 | 26 | 11 Sep 1749 | 18 | 9 Jan 1731 | Nelly Conway | Orange |
George Mason | 11 Dec 1725 | 24 | 4 Apr 1750 | 16 | Jan 1734 | Ann Eilbeck | Fairfax |
Daniel Park Custis | 15 Oct 1711 | 37 | 15 May 1750 | 18 | 2 Jun 1731 | Martha Dandridge | Williamsburg |
James Harris | 17 Jul 1733 | 23 | 31 Jun 1757 | 18 | 7 Jul 1739 | Betty Shares | Albemarle |
William Fitzhugh | 24 Aug 1741 | 22 | 2 Apr 1763 | 16 | 13 May 1747 | Ann Bolling Randolph | Stafford |
Jacquelin Ambler | 9 Aug 1742 | 22 | 24 May 1764 | 17 | 29 May 1746 | Rebecca Burwell | York |
Muscoe Garnett | 17 Aug 1736 | 30 | 9 Jul 1767 | 16 | 20 Feb 1751 | Grace Fenton | Essex |
Joseph Terrell | 28 Jan 1745 | 22 | 29 Sep 1767 | 20 | 26 Jan 1747 | Elizabeth Mills | Hanover |
Alexander Boyd | 16 Aug 1743 | 24 | 24 Mar 1768 | 18 | 22 Jan 1750 | Ann Swepson | Mecklenburg |
Mack Goode | 12 Sep 1744 | 36 | 19 Dec 1770 | 17 | 14 Oct 1753 | Mary Moseley | Lunenburg |
Micheal Yates | 30 Jun 1753 | 22 | 29 Apr 1776 | 25 | 30 Mar 1751 | Ann Estes | Caroline |
Joseph Helm | 5 Oct 1755 | 23 | 24 Jun 1779 | 19 | 21 Mar 1760 | Rebecca Larue | Clarke |
Edward Allen | 23 Jun 1753 | 28 | 10 Oct 1782 | 23 | 31 Jan 1759 | Elizabeth Reid | Nansemond |
John Marshall | 24 Sep 1755 | 27 | 3 Jan 1783 | 16 | 18 Mar 1766 | Mary “Polly” Willis Ambler | Richmond City |
John T Sayers | 19 Jul 1758 | 26 | 16 Aug 1784 | 19 | 29 Sep 1764 | Susanna Crocket | Pulaski (with Pulaski Bible records) |
Isaac Hunter | 29 Aug 1759 | 25 | 8 Jun 1785 | 16 | 3 Nov 1768 | Sophia Riddick | Nansemond |
Daniel Duval | 2 Feb 1770 | 21 | 2 Dec 1791 | 24 | 25 Dec 1768 | Sally Carter | Caroline |
Henry Harris | 12 Feb 1768 | 24 | 15 Nov 1792 | 23 | 6 Oct 1769 | Mary Ferguson | Albemarle |
James Barbour | 10 Jun 1775 | 20 | 20 Oct 1795 | 20 | 29 Nov 1775 | Lucy Maria Johnson | Orange |
Joel Henry | 20 Jul 1776 | 20 | 22 Dec 1796 | 23 | 29 Nov 1773 | Susan Allen | Fauquier |
Gabriel Penn | 14 Nov 1773 | 23 | 6 Feb 1797 | 17 | 14 Jan 1780 | Jane Clark | Patrick |
When completed, this study will have 100 couples. Current tally: 29 couples, 23 Jul 2022